OkCupid is definitely leading the way in terms of being more accommodating to both polyamorous people and trans people. They have a lot of ways to define your relationship orientation.
OkCupid is one of the most recommended apps for poly dating. On top of being a popular site with lots of users, there you can outright search for people who are comfortable with non-monogamy, and you can even link an account with a partner's—though they missed the mark on not allowing you to link with multiple partners! Of all the sites, they are doing the most to acknowledge LGBTQ issues and nontraditional relationship styles. Other sites, like Plenty of Fish, will actually reject you and low-key insult you if you select that you are married in your profile.
I go with the intention of being upfront about being polyamorous… When I first start talking to somebody, polyamory is something I bring up fairly quickly.
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Not everyone is non-monogamous. It doesn't make sense to waste anyone's time if what they are seeking is a monogamous relationship. Generally, I stick to dating people who are also already seeking non-monogamous relationships. The presumption is difficult and a thing. I had [that I was poly] in my profile. She seemed open-minded to it, but then when I actually met her for dinner, pretty much the entire date was her challenging the concept of poly and challenging every reason why I would be poly. My parents are divorced, which may have come up at some point. Recently, a girl asked if I would be interested in going out on a date sometime.
You also get people who seem interested at first, then fade away once they realize they can't handle non-monogamy. So then I figured I might as well put it out there since the rumor was going around that my wife was cheating on me—but really we were just in an open relationship. So far, that has never happened, other than some good-natured teasing from my younger brother who stumbled upon my profile.
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In fact, I ended up finding out that more than a few friends of mine were also polyamorous by way of seeing them pop up on dating apps! We got that out of the way after a few months.
It's all good until someone spots you on Bumble and assumes you're cheating on your partner.
We talked a little bit, then she wanted to plan a date. I sent her some info and links about it. She was OK with it. I got a steady partner for a couple of months from OkCupid. I also don't see any gay men here.
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